Biblical theme · Character and relationships
Reconciliation in the Bible
Restoring broken relationships: God reconciling people to himself, going to a brother or sister, Jacob and Esau, Joseph, Philemon, Paul and Mark, and divided groups made one.
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Introduction
Reconciliation is the restoring of a broken relationship. Paul writes that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ and has given believers the ministry of reconciliation. 2 Corinthians 5:17–21
Jesus tells his followers to go and be reconciled before offering their gift. The stories show reconciliation that takes years, and sometimes a separation that comes first. Matthew 5:23–24Genesis 33:4Acts 15:39
Central passages
- 2 Corinthians 5:17–21
God reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.
- Romans 5:10–11
While we were enemies, we were reconciled to God through the death of his Son.
- Colossians 1:19–22
Through him God reconciled all things to himself, making peace through the blood of his cross.
- Matthew 5:23–24
If your brother has something against you, leave your gift and first be reconciled to him.
- Matthew 18:15–17
If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault between the two of you alone.
- Ephesians 2:11–22
Christ has broken down the dividing wall and made the two one new humanity.
Across Scripture
Each passage is labelled with why it belongs: central teaching, narrative example, supporting passage, comparison, contrast or interpretive connection.
Reconciled to God
The letters describe God making peace with people who were his enemies.
- 2 Corinthians 5:17–21 Central teaching
God reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.
- Romans 5:10–11 Central teaching
While we were enemies, we were reconciled to God through the death of his Son.
- Colossians 1:19–22 Central teaching
Through him God reconciled all things to himself, making peace through the blood of his cross.
Between people
Jesus gives practical steps for repairing relationships.
- Matthew 5:23–24 Central teaching
If your brother has something against you, leave your gift and first be reconciled to him.
- Matthew 18:15–17 Central teaching
If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault between the two of you alone.
- Philippians 4:2–3 Narrative example
Paul urges two women in the church, Euodia and Syntyche, to agree in the Lord, and asks a friend to help them.
Stories of reconciliation
The narratives show brothers, a runaway slave and two missionaries restored.
- Genesis 33:1–11 Narrative example
After twenty years Esau runs to embrace Jacob.
- Genesis 45:1–15 Narrative example
Joseph reveals himself and weeps with his brothers.
- Philemon 8–21 Narrative example
Paul asks Philemon to receive Onesimus “no longer as a slave, but… a beloved brother”.
- Acts 15:36–40 Narrative example
Paul and Barnabas part sharply over Mark.
- 2 Timothy 4:11 Narrative example
Years later Paul asks for Mark: “he is useful to me for service.”
Divided groups made one
The New Testament speaks of reconciliation between Jew and Gentile in Christ.
- Ephesians 2:11–22 Central teaching
Christ has broken down the dividing wall and made the two one new humanity.
- Galatians 3:28 Supporting passage
There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female; you are all one in Christ Jesus.
Stories that show this theme
- Jacob and Esau Illustrates the theme
Brothers reconciled after twenty years. Genesis 33:4
- Joseph and His Brothers Illustrates the theme
Joseph and his brothers are restored to one another. Genesis 45:15
People associated with this theme
- Jacob
Jacob meets the brother he deceived. Genesis 33:3–4
- Esau
Esau embraces Jacob. Genesis 33:4
- John Mark
Paul separates from Mark and later asks for him. Acts 15:37–392 Timothy 4:11
Distinctions and questions of interpretation
- Reconciliation and forgiveness
- You can forgive even when reconciliation is not possible. “If it is possible, as much as it depends on you, be at peace with all people.” Romans 12:18
- Reconciliation and safety
- Jesus’ steps in Matthew 18 involve honesty and witnesses. Reconciliation needs changed behaviour on both sides; it is never a reason to return to someone who is harming you. Matthew 18:15–17Proverbs 22:3
- Reconciliation and time
- Paul and Barnabas separated over Mark; Paul later valued Mark again. Restored relationships can take years. Acts 15:392 Timothy 4:11
Related themes
- Peace
Peace between people often needs reconciliation. Ephesians 2:14–16
- Forgiveness
Forgiveness opens the way to reconciliation. Colossians 3:13
- Redemption
Another New Testament picture of what God has done in Christ. 2 Corinthians 5:18–19
Life situations
- Marriage
Restoring a strained relationship. Matthew 5:23–24
- Family Conflict
Restoring broken relationships. Matthew 5:23–24
- Forgiving Someone
Forgiveness and reconciliation are related but different. Romans 12:18
Questions for reflection
Written by BibleKenya editors. They are not Scripture.
- According to 2 Corinthians 5:18-20, what has God given to those he reconciled?
- What does Jesus ask you to do before worship in Matthew 5:23-24?
- What does the story of Paul and Mark show about time and reconciliation?
- Is there a relationship where you could take the next step, “as much as it depends on you”?