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Bible Passages for When You Are Not Safe
If someone is hurting, threatening or controlling you: safety first, with passages showing that God hates violence, that escaping danger is right, and that abuse is never to be kept secret.
Editorial text in English. Scripture is quoted from the version you choose; references stay the same in every version.
Introduction
The Bible takes violence and oppression seriously. It says God hates the one who loves violence, and it shows people escaping from those who meant them harm. Psalm 11:51 Samuel 19:11–12
These passages are offered alongside practical help, never instead of it. Getting to safety and telling someone come first.
Passages to read
What each passage addresses in its own setting, and why it is relevant here. Read the surrounding verses too.
Psalm 11:5 Central teaching
What it addresses: A psalm of trust when the foundations are shaken.
Why it is relevant: “The wicked and him who loves violence his soul hates.” God is not on the side of the violent.
1 Samuel 19:9–18 Narrative example
What it addresses: King Saul tries to kill David; David’s wife Michal helps him escape through a window.
Why it is relevant: David flees from someone with power over him who is trying to harm him. Escaping danger is not a failure of faith.
Matthew 2:13–15 Narrative example
What it addresses: Joseph is warned in a dream to flee to Egypt with Mary and the child.
Why it is relevant: Leaving to protect the vulnerable from violence is shown as right.
Psalm 55:1–8 Central teaching
What it addresses: A psalm of someone harmed by a close companion.
Why it is relevant: It names fear, trembling and the wish to fly away and be at rest.
Psalm 10:12–18 Central teaching
What it addresses: A psalm calling on God to act for the helpless against oppressors.
Why it is relevant: God sees trouble and grief and defends the oppressed.
2 Samuel 13:1–22 Narrative example
What it addresses: Content note: sexual violence. Tamar is raped by her half-brother Amnon.
Why it is relevant: Scripture records the crime, Tamar’s protest and grief, and her family’s failure to do justice. Her suffering is not hidden or excused.
Colossians 3:19 Supporting passage
What it addresses: Paul’s instruction to husbands.
Why it is relevant: Husbands must love their wives and not be harsh with them. No passage on marriage justifies control or violence.
Proverbs 22:3 Supporting passage
What it addresses: A proverb about prudence.
Why it is relevant: The prudent person sees danger and takes shelter.
People in Scripture who faced this
- David
David escapes from Saul, who is trying to kill him. 1 Samuel 19:10–12
- Joseph of Nazareth
Joseph takes Mary and the child to safety. Matthew 2:14
Connected themes
- Justice
God defends the oppressed. Psalm 10:17–18
Questions for reflection
Optional. Written by BibleKenya editors; they are not Scripture. Your answers are not collected.
- Which of these passages speaks most to your situation?
- Who is one safe person you could tell what is happening?
- What would help you reach a safe place?
Related situations
- Fear
Fear and trust. Psalm 56:3
- Marriage
What Scripture says marriage should be. Ephesians 5:25
- Family Conflict
Conflict at home. Romans 12:18
Scripture, editorial reflection and professional advice are different things. The passages are quoted from the Bible version you choose; the explanations are BibleKenya’s; for health, legal, financial or safety decisions, seek qualified help.